During our most recent officer installation, where I was appointed Senior Steward, I watched our new Senior Deacon pray while closing the 3 Great Lights during the closing of the Lodge. I wondered to myself, what will I be praying for when I am in that chair?
There’s always the old standbys of health and happiness for ourselves, family and our Brothers. There’s a safe journey home for the people who travel. Or a speedy recovery for a Brother, family member or someone we know how is having sickness and distress. All of them are good and worthy. But I think I will be doing what I normally do. I will say Thank You. Thank you to the creator for the things He has given me. Thank you for the things I will receive. Thank you for the people the creator has put into my life. (Some of which I still wonder why they are there, haha.)
My wife and I were recently discussing the Secret Santa thing we do with her immediate family. The gifts were capped at $20. I explained to her that I didn’t understand WHY we are doing it. I do not NEED at $20 gift from whomever picks me. I would rather that that person come over to my house for food, drink and fellowship. That person’s presence in my life is gift enough.
I realized at that moment that the same holds true for my children. I need no gifts from them for Christmas or my Birthday. Anything they give me is appreciated and held dear. But what I truly want from them is their appreciation for the things I provide. I don’t mean “Thank you, dad for the heat, lights and food!”. (although that would be nice every once in a while, lol). But rather, I want them to appreciate me enough to hang out with me. Let me be a part of their lives.
I feel like this is what the Creator wants from his children, as well. Just a place in our hearts for him. A place in our lives for him. And yes, maybe a thank you every once in a while.
Anthony D'Aloisio
Senior Steward
